Know Each Other
The guide to building a relationship on purpose, with the companion worksheet included.
₦7,500
Excel worksheet embedded in the e-Book
For two people building a life together
Most couples plan a wedding for months. Few ever sit down and talk about the marriage. Money. In laws. Faith. Sex. Know Each Other is a practical guide for partners building a life together.
28 areas of real life · 310 honest questions
The story
Why this book exists
Two people can love each other completely and still end up building two different lives without realizing it. Nobody hid anything. The questions were simply never asked out loud. Know Each Other helps you ask these questions honestly, and on one area of real life at a time, so that you and your partner achieve alignment and get to build the same future together.
Ayo Tanimowo
Ayo Tanimowo is a financial analyst who is focused on personal development, financial governance, and relationship architecture. His work centers on helping individuals and couples apply strategic realism, financial clarity, and discipline to build strong, stable life partnerships.
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Read it, talk it through, and know exactly where you stand.
The Interactive Workbook
Stop wondering if you're actually on the same page. Answer privately. See where you truly align, and where you need to work on or seek a professional counsellor.
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Where do you stand?
Green — You're aligned, or your difference brings out the best in each other.
Amber — You see it differently, but honest conversation and a little compromise will get you there.
Red — A real clash worth sitting with, together or with a professional counsellor.
Inside the workbook
See the conversation clearly
Once you both finish, your answers sit side by side with a plain-language insight you can discuss — and change together if it doesn't feel right.
Know Each Other
Amara + Tobi · Living Every Day
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Question 1 · green
What does a fair division of work at home look like to you?
Amara's answer
We each own the things we're better at, then split the rest evenly.
Tobi's answer
Share the routine things, but let each person lead where they naturally shine.
Insight. You use different words, but both want a fair, strengths-based partnership.
Question 2 · amber
How should we decide when to help extended family financially?
Amara's answer
We should agree together before giving any significant amount.
Tobi's answer
I need freedom to help close family when something urgent happens.
Insight. Your instincts differ, but a shared limit and an emergency rule can bridge this.
Question 3 · red
Do you want children?
Amara's answer
Yes. Becoming a parent is essential to the future I want.
Tobi's answer
No. I am certain that parenthood is not right for me.
Insight. This is a serious life-direction clash that deserves honest, careful discussion.
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